Agreed, there is some troubled souls on this forum, just look around.
Sir Creep, obviously in denial about sexual orientation, and it manifest itself with posts about male sports people
Paul the mod- obviously had mommy issues as a child, and now is very strict in life
Joey Russ- now a reformed character on the forum, but as youngster probably fell in with the wrong crowd, but now a good guy, a bit like American History X
What makes it worse, when someone join like Desmond Tutu, someone that can help them, and they just shun him.