Unrequited Love / Secret Crush

[Exu 250]

Following on from a conversation with a work colleague, this got me thinking. Anyone going to ‘fess up to having one?

[Joey Russ 7,228]

Have I had those types of experiences before? Yes. Am I going to tell you what they are? No, that would get into some details that I’d rather not go into...

[Toast 16,146]

I used to have a list of Top Ten Unattainable Men, if that counts. 

Don't think it ever got to ten, tbh, cos I'm fussy.

[CarolAnn 926]

My goal in life was to always be someone else's.

[Spade_Cooley 9,538]

Winona Ryder in 1992 won't fuck me.

[Paul Bearer 6,102]

17 hours ago, Exu said:

Following on from a conversation with a work colleague, this got me thinking. Anyone going to ‘fess up to having one?

Are you trying to tell us something? 

[YoungWillz 21,058]

Dennis Lawson's niece had a crush on me once.

 

For some reason she became rather upset when she discovered I had never caught heterosexuality....

[Lord Fellatio Nelson 6,219]

Never have one with somebody that ....

1) You have never actually spoken to/know well at all because, when you finally do, oh the disappointment 

2) Somebody you fall madly in love with only to discover that they love themselves equally as much and not you at all.

[msc 18,479]

Yeah,  late 1960s era Diana Rigg. It's the lack of time travel that's the real killer blow there.

 

2018 Diana Rigg is older than my gran - it's really not the same.

 

 

Also, it's really difficult to read posts on here when they get deleted mid-read. Err, to no one in particular.

[markb4 902]

8 hours ago, CarolAnn said:

My goal in life was to always be someone else's.

Same!

[Lard Bazaar 3,799]

Yeh, never meet your heroes because they always turn out to be cunts.

[runebomme 377]

they're  not all cunts some are dicks and some are arseholes

[Guest]

I've had them a few times. All in real life, most ended up in direct rejection because I don't seem to have it in me to keep my feelings private. Something just pushes me to try. Guys tend to view me as the one whose feelings are okay to hurt, maybe as "compensation" for those super-pretty, unattainable girls who rejected them in the past. I never had the opposite situation happen (and honestly, if someone had such strong feelings for me, I would probably give him a chance).

[Toast 16,146]

2 hours ago, sadgirldreaming93 said:

 (and honestly, if someone had such strong feelings for me, I would probably give him a chance).

 

I have, and it never ended well. 

[runebomme 377]

the problem is that its not the feelings the the guys are trying to hurt that's just collateral

[Deathray 2,940]

Most of the time it isn't really love, just an infatuation that's got out of hand. The very fact you can't be close to the person is the fact that's making you fall for them, it's a vicious circle. It's not them your falling for, it's who you think they are. I'm sure there's exceptions but as someone who's experienced a few (it's easier to run into when 90-95% of the people available for you to be physically attracted too have a different sexual preference). Doesn't mean it sucks any less...

 

And yes I bumped this thread because of one before you ask.

[charon 4,943]

Deathers, Meh.

 

 

Not a critisisim, just ....... Get on with your Life.

 

 

Do you even need to be in a partnership?

 

 

Fuck it, get messed up, punch a woman, hit a copper, drive drunk and do all the normal things a boy your age wid do.

 

 

Then do whit you fucking want.

[runebomme 377]

On 13/06/2018 at 15:59, Lord Fellatio Nelson said:

Never have one with somebody that ....

1) You have never actually spoken to/know well at all because, when you finally do, oh the disappointment 

2) Somebody you fall madly in love with only to discover that they love themselves equally as much and not you at all.

such is life

 

[Deathray 2,940]

9 hours ago, charon said:

Deathers, Meh.

 

 

Not a critisisim, just ....... Get on with your Life.

 

 

Do you even need to be in a partnership?

 

Fuck it, get messed up, punch a woman, hit a copper, drive drunk and do all the normal things a boy your age wid do.

  

 

Then do whit you fucking want.

 

Not taken as a criticism. You have a way with words don't you .... but you're right of course. 

[YoungWillz 21,058]

@Gooseberry Crumble You've fessed up to Sir Sean as a first crush.

 

So I'll do mine. 8 years old. Derek Longmuir of the Bay City Rollers.

[Gooseberry Crumble 5,346]

4 minutes ago, YoungWillz said:

@Gooseberry Crumble You've fessed up to Sir Sean as a first crush.

 

So I'll do mine. 8 years old. Derek Longmuir of the Bay City Rollers.

I must confess to not being able to place him in my mind ie visualise what he looks like! So I will now use Google images to sample  his delights!

[Book 3,557]

6 minutes ago, YoungWillz said:

@Gooseberry Crumble You've fessed up to Sir Sean as a first crush.

 

So I'll do mine. 8 years old. Derek Longmuir of the Bay City Rollers.

 Don Johnson in Miami Vice for me, please, when I was 12

 

[Bentrovato 1,088]

Priti Patel. Just for an hour or two.

[YoungWillz 21,058]

1 minute ago, Bentrovato said:

Priti Patel. Just for an hour or two.

With the revolver in the Billiard Room.....

[Gooseberry Crumble 5,346]

4 minutes ago, Book said:

 Don Johnson in Miami Vice for me, please, when I was 12

 

Decent  choice  but for crushes on movie actors who were also hugely successful  in vintage television  I find the very masculine,  strong,  brooding  Bruce Willis hard to beat. A beautiful  expression of walking breathing  Cocky testosterone