Lafaucheuse 4,051 Posted March 20, 2022 Just been dumped by my boyfriend and I searched for a topic where we can talk about love and (failed) relationships but didn’t find anything so I guess here were are ! Feel free to share your best, worst, or current love affaire here ! 1 12 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Philheybrookbay1 247 Posted March 21, 2022 Ah being dumped. Never nice. Two work colleagues have had their marriages finish in recent weeks, and as the person who went through divorce about 9 years ago I’m viewed as an expert in their eyes. One was really cruel. Wife of 25 years took him out for a meal and told him it was over. On Valentines Day of all days. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Khthonia 101 Posted March 21, 2022 I am sorry that you are going through this, it is not nice at all. Not to mention the amount of people that then say you will be ok, there is a light at the end of the tunnel, can just hush up, even if true. I went through my break up 10 years ago when my husband walked out leaving me with 4 kids under 4, the baby was 9 months, to be with an older woman with no commitments. Break ups are fucked up and no amount of words of comfort will help you right now.Though I am still going to say be strong. It will take time, not going to lie, took me many many years, some people not as long. Please just don't over think things and if you need to cry then cry and cry until you just can't anymore. Take Care 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Daredevil 1,189 Posted March 25, 2022 In my case, I have been grieving and suffering over the love of my life every day and night for nearly four years now. Yes, it has only been four years and there are certainly so many worse ordeals people have to go through all the time like described above but this has never stopped killing me and my urge to die now is even stronger than Alain Delon’s! The worse part for me is that the love of my life and I never even had so much as a private moment together, they saw absolutely nothing in me, so I’ve never got any happy memories of us together to ease all this merciless pain. Oh, what could have been... What’s more, as this will continue to haunt me for the rest of my life, I may have to undergo another forty or fifty years of this torture, heaven forbid! Talk about a slow death... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drol 11,948 Posted March 25, 2022 13 minutes ago, The Daredevil said: In my case, I have been grieving and suffering over the love of my life every day and night for nearly four years now. Yes, it has only been four years and there are certainly so many worse ordeals people have to go through all the time like described above but this has never stopped killing me and my urge to die now is even stronger than Alain Delon’s! The worse part for me is that the love of my life and I never even had so much as a private moment together, they saw absolutely nothing in me, so I’ve never got any happy memories of us together to ease all this merciless pain. Oh, what could have been... What’s more, as this will continue to haunt me for the rest of my life, I may have to undergo another forty or fifty years of this torture, heaven forbid! Talk about a slow death... Don't waste yourself that way. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TQR 14,398 Posted March 25, 2022 1 hour ago, The Daredevil said: the love of my life and I never even had so much as a private moment together, they saw absolutely nothing in me, so I’ve never got any happy memories of us together Hard luck, but seriously, you need to understand that you don’t know this person would be all they’re cracked up to be in your head. Being brutally honest, they’re most likely not, so don’t get too hung up over them. Figure out what it is you like in a person and get yourself out there when you’re ready. Moving on might feel daunting but you’ll do it, and you’ll thank yourself for it later. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
harrymcnallysblueandwhitearmy 1,689 Posted March 25, 2022 Ooh this is like that Dear Abby thread, when Starcrossed came over all Marje Proops and ditched his Matthew Hopkins persona for 5 minutes. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lord Fellatio Nelson 6,218 Posted March 25, 2022 6 hours ago, The Daredevil said: In my case, I have been grieving and suffering over the love of my life every day and night for nearly four years now. Yes, it has only been four years and there are certainly so many worse ordeals people have to go through all the time like described above but this has never stopped killing me and my urge to die now is even stronger than Alain Delon’s! The worse part for me is that the love of my life and I never even had so much as a private moment together, they saw absolutely nothing in me, so I’ve never got any happy memories of us together to ease all this merciless pain. Oh, what could have been... What’s more, as this will continue to haunt me for the rest of my life, I may have to undergo another forty or fifty years of this torture, heaven forbid! Talk about a slow death... A stalker... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladyfiona 2,586 Posted March 25, 2022 My dad's best friend from school - He and his wife divorced a few years ago finally after at least 30 years of being married. They only "stayed together" because of their son who is same age as their marriage basically. (rough estimate of dates here) They had only been together for a couple of months but she got pregnant and so my dad's friend did the honourable thing of proposing etc etc. Truth be told she is a vile woman who made his life miserable and my mum refused to continue going round to see them 10+ years ago as she hated her. I heard from my mum that they actually stopped sharing a bed together a while back. Divorce got messy because both have high paying jobs (dad's friend gets a new car every few months type thing) and she wanted more money. Dad's friend is now in a happy relationship with a new woman. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Immortal 634 Posted March 26, 2022 I have had my fair share of relationships, don't think I have ever been dumped anytime though. But one of my close friends in university, his GF of 2 years cheated on him in a rather fucked up way. It turns out she was secretly having affairs behind my friend's back for at least a year, with a married man 22 years her senior (she was around 20, the married man was 42), My friend only found out about this because the man she was having affairs with, forgot his watch at her place and when my friend noticed this he suspected something because he had a different watch and that's when he looked through her phone and saw the cheating messages. Needless to say this messed up my friend pretty bad, he had to go into therapy for quite a while. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
