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Following on from a conversation with a work colleague, this got me thinking. Anyone going to ‘fess up to having one?

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Have I had those types of experiences before? Yes. Am I going to tell you what they are? No, that would get into some details that I’d rather not go into...

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I used to have a list of Top Ten Unattainable Men, if that counts. 

Don't think it ever got to ten, tbh, cos I'm fussy.

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My goal in life was to always be someone else's.

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Winona Ryder in 1992 won't fuck me.

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17 hours ago, Exu said:

Following on from a conversation with a work colleague, this got me thinking. Anyone going to ‘fess up to having one?

Are you trying to tell us something? 

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Dennis Lawson's niece had a crush on me once.

 

For some reason she became rather upset when she discovered I had never caught heterosexuality....

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Never have one with somebody that ....

1) You have never actually spoken to/know well at all because, when you finally do, oh the disappointment :(

2) Somebody you fall madly in love with only to discover that they love themselves equally as much and not you at all.

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Yeah,  late 1960s era Diana Rigg. It's the lack of time travel that's the real killer blow there.

 

2018 Diana Rigg is older than my gran - it's really not the same.

 

 

Also, it's really difficult to read posts on here when they get deleted mid-read. Err, to no one in particular. :D

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8 hours ago, CarolAnn said:

My goal in life was to always be someone else's.

Same!

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Yeh, never meet your heroes because they always turn out to be cunts.

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they're  not all cunts some are dicks and some are arseholes

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I've had them a few times. All in real life, most ended up in direct rejection because I don't seem to have it in me to keep my feelings private. Something just pushes me to try. Guys tend to view me as the one whose feelings are okay to hurt, maybe as "compensation" for those super-pretty, unattainable girls who rejected them in the past. I never had the opposite situation happen (and honestly, if someone had such strong feelings for me, I would probably give him a chance).

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2 hours ago, sadgirldreaming93 said:

 (and honestly, if someone had such strong feelings for me, I would probably give him a chance).

 

I have, and it never ended well.  ^_^

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the problem is that its not the feelings the the guys are trying to hurt that's just collateral

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Most of the time it isn't really love, just an infatuation that's got out of hand. The very fact you can't be close to the person is the fact that's making you fall for them, it's a vicious circle. It's not them your falling for, it's who you think they are. I'm sure there's exceptions but as someone who's experienced a few (it's easier to run into when 90-95% of the people available for you to be physically attracted too have a different sexual preference). Doesn't mean it sucks any less...

 

And yes I bumped this thread because of one before you ask.

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Deathers, Meh.

 

 

Not a critisisim, just ....... Get on with your Life.

 

 

Do you even need to be in a partnership?

 

 

Fuck it, get messed up, punch a woman, hit a copper, drive drunk and do all the normal things a boy your age wid do.

 

 

Then do whit you fucking want.

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On 13/06/2018 at 15:59, Lord Fellatio Nelson said:

Never have one with somebody that ....

1) You have never actually spoken to/know well at all because, when you finally do, oh the disappointment :(

2) Somebody you fall madly in love with only to discover that they love themselves equally as much and not you at all.

such is life

 

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9 hours ago, charon said:

Deathers, Meh.

 

 

Not a critisisim, just ....... Get on with your Life.

 

 

Do you even need to be in a partnership?

 

Fuck it, get messed up, punch a woman, hit a copper, drive drunk and do all the normal things a boy your age wid do.

  

 

Then do whit you fucking want.

 

Not taken as a criticism. You have a way with words don't you .... but you're right of course. 

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