DL Status Updates: Statements, Obsevations & Verbal Tennis

[Deathray 2,940]

 

I think there's a number of posters on here who have no perception of what is/is not socially acceptable, and live in the misguided belief that on here is somehow a different universe from the real world and they can get away with things that wouldn't fly in the real world. While that may fly as true to a certain extent I think we call agree wishing other members of our community dead is far beyond even any perception like that can allow for, we reserve wishing potential picks dead for the truly heinous members of the planet, so the idea as Morbidkid appears to suggest above we shouldn't even let that dignity stand for our own members, especially those that don't make it a habitat to offend people, seems to attack one of the core principles of deathlist in not wishing people dead.

I notice that Cat O'Falk hasn't made any posts since your "joke" in the Welcome thread....Now, it's possible that you have apologized since in a PM (if so, you can ignore this post), but your only visible response to his reaction was correcting his punctuation.

 

The point is that there are MANY ways to offend/hurt others than simply wishing death upon someone. It's not a bad idea to do some self-reflection every now and then, and be willing to apologize the minute you find yourself standing on the wrong side of the appropriateness line.

 

 

I did apologise by PM, but CoF hasn't read it, although he has been online since. There's not much more I can say on that matter, but if you're reading this CoF I'm sorry for the joke which was in retrospect obviously rude and unnecessary if not at all intended to be that way.

 

However I don't think that was near the level of wishing someone dead in my opinion. But I'm hardly going to sit here defending an offensive comment because it's comparatively less offensive than what someone else posted. That would be churlish.

[Lord Fellatio Nelson 6,219]

[YoungWillz 21,062]

A very good rule, said to me once, is if you wouldn't say it to your mate down the pub then don't say it.

 

MK, I don't know you and we only have what you've shared about yourself to go by, but this contentious post (and one or two others I've come across), makes me feel you are young and trying get into the groove with snappy witty comebacks and getting it terribly wrong in the process. This forum does seem to have a high proportion of razor sharp comics and the urge to keep pace is strong I admit. But they, mostly, have been around a few decades longer than you and they've learned by their mistakes.

 

MK, wishing anyone dead, even is jest, whether it's a mate or a stranger, is not a stylish thing to do. That's putting it politely. Other people won't be so polite. The mature thing to do would be to apologise, accept you made an error of judgement and I'm sure everyone will accept that and come away with a better view of you.

 

Admittedly, most of mine are pseudo-Carry-On.

[charon 4,943]

Deathers, apologising after the fact is fine, unless you made that much of a cunt of it that you burned the fucking house down.

 

Cat has obviously taken offense to that post, who wouldn't? And I dont blame him for not looking at the pm.

I do blame him for the influx from grannynet however. Wtf we do to them?

 

Aye, rich for me considering my posting history, but I'll live with it.

[Deathray 2,940]

Deathers, apologising after the fact is fine, unless you made that much of a cunt of it that you burned the fucking house down.

 

Cat has obviously taken offense to that post, who wouldn't? And I dont blame him for not looking at the pm.

I do blame him for the influx from grannynet however. Wtf we do to them?

 

Aye, rich for me considering my posting history, but I'll live with it.

 

Not sure what you mean by the first paragraph.

 

Well to be honest I wouldn't, probably have just looked for the sexface smiley, posted it and moved on with my life, which is why I posted it in the first place; after all it's the internet so it's not really an insult at me personally. Sometimes do unto others as you'd accept done to you isn't even a good enough barometer. However I can see why it offended him.

 

Regarding grannynet members, maybe we should check out their credentials and see if any of them would be good additions to the list.

[RadGuy 1,614]

I hope you're alright, Sir Creep.

 

Eat a dick, Morbidkid.

[charon 4,943]

^^ wishing pedophillia on a minor.

 

That worse than death?**ray?

[rockhopper penguin 2,265]

Nothing wrong with a nice bit of spotted dick

[YoungWillz 21,062]

If I spot it, I'll eat it....

[LizzieJones 63]

Nothing wrong with a nice bit of spotted dick

Just what is spotted dick?It looks like a really moist fruit cake.

[Lord Fellatio Nelson 6,219]

Deathers, apologising after the fact is fine, unless you made that much of a cunt of it that you burned the fucking house down.

 

Cat has obviously taken offense to that post, who wouldn't? And I dont blame him for not looking at the pm.

I do blame him for the influx from grannynet however. Wtf we do to them?

 

Aye, rich for me considering my posting history, but I'll live with it.

Some of us (me) sail close to the wind but I mean no harm or ill will really.

Z was a seriously nasty bit of work and Im fucked if I know why he has ben allowed to waltz back in and start over, like we would NEVER KNOW!!!!

MK has been boiling my piss for a while now, he doesn't seem to get that most of us leave ourselves and our private lives out of here and that includes our familes.

Generally, if somebody made a sexual joke about my Mum Id kill the cunt stone dead so why its just 'ha fucking ha' when some shit like that is posted on here is not computing to me.

I think Sir C is a tool but I wouldn't dream of saying what the little prick said.

The boy has blurred the boundaries with real life and the fantasy world he usually inhabits.

Fuck him off and fuck off that knob head who thinks we didn't notice him sneak back in.

PS: Charon, I wont tell anybody that you are really one of the good guys........

[Lord Fellatio Nelson 6,219]

 

Nothing wrong with a nice bit of spotted dick

Just what is spotted dick?It looks like a really moist fruit cake.

 

Its nothing special its just that the British LOVE Innuendo.

[rockhopper penguin 2,265]

 

Nothing wrong with a nice bit of spotted dick

Just what is spotted dick?It looks like a really moist fruit cake.

 

 

 

 

Nothing wrong with a nice bit of spotted dick

Just what is spotted dick?It looks like a really moist fruit cake.

 

Its nothing special its just that the British LOVE Innuendo.

 

And cake. If you want one smeared in custard here's a link http://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/spotteddickandcustar_87835 Don't worry it's not Porn Hub (whatever that is).

[Handrejka 1,904]

 

 

Nothing wrong with a nice bit of spotted dick

Just what is spotted dick?It looks like a really moist fruit cake.

 

 

 

 

Nothing wrong with a nice bit of spotted dick

Just what is spotted dick?It looks like a really moist fruit cake.

 

Its nothing special its just that the British LOVE Innuendo.

 

And cake. If you want one smeared in custard here's a link http://www.bbc.co.uk/food/recipes/spotteddickandcustar_87835 Don't worry it's not Porn Hub (whatever that is).

 

 

I don't. I hate cake.

[rockhopper penguin 2,265]

There's an obvious comment which I am too much of a well-mannered penguin to make.

[LizzieJones 63]

Yes, I know the British love innuendo. I've seen enough British tv shows and movies to know that from a young age.

 

Thanks for the recipe. Off to the kitchen.

[charon 4,943]

I'm missing a good gen non school massacre thread for this shite

[Caisson 37]

I don't. I hate cake.

Me too but I didn't realise how much I did until the rise of the Great British Snooze-off

[rockhopper penguin 2,265]

Your best response yet.

[Lord Fellatio Nelson 6,219]

Yes, I know the British love innuendo. I've seen enough British tv shows and movies to know that from a young age.

 

Thanks for the recipe. Off to the kitchen.

Be careful.

Telling everybody that you are 'Off to the Kitchen to have a bit of spotted dick' may have a vertically challenged patron running to the sock draw to take out a size 4 before requesting a demonstration of your talents.

[msc 18,479]

This was highly interesting. I'm not very good at the whole heart to heart group meeting type stuff, but given some of the stuff above... All I'll add is that Cat O'Falk is one of the better posters on here, and I hope he hasn't stopped posting due to one person being an idiot. As you still log on to the forum, Cat, I can't speak for the rest of the forum, but I've always found you a highly informative poster (as well as one who adds greatly to my well of things which procastinate - see the Flight Radar!) with a good sense of humour, and would be saddened to see you gone.

[Toast 16,150]

Seconded. Bring back the Cat !!!

[Toast 16,150]

A very good rule, said to me once, is if you wouldn't say it to your mate down the pub then don't say it.

 

MK, I don't know you and we only have what you've shared about yourself to go by, but this contentious post (and one or two others I've come across), makes me feel you are young and trying get into the groove with snappy witty comebacks and getting it terribly wrong in the process. This forum does seem to have a high proportion of razor sharp comics and the urge to keep pace is strong I admit. But they, mostly, have been around a few decades longer than you and they've learned by their mistakes.

 

MK, wishing anyone dead, even is jest, whether it's a mate or a stranger, is not a stylish thing to do. That's putting it politely. Other people won't be so polite. The mature thing to do would be to apologise, accept you made an error of judgement and I'm sure everyone will accept that and come away with a better view of you.

 

Wednesday, I for the empathy and kindness shown in this post.

[CarolAnn 926]

Since I'm currently 35000 feet over Utah I'm going to stay out of the fray.

[msc 18,479]

Just came up with a daft idea for a deadpool, and when I say "came up with", I mean "entirely lifted from a football forum". This post is entirely to remind me at some point which isn't 5am, because who remembers flashes of insanity at 5am.